Won’t someone think of the children !!!Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 8:37 amMost soccer parents are worse!Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 8:31 amYou need to talk loud from the bench for kids to hear you.Guest wrote: ↑Mon Oct 28, 2024 7:27 pm How does everyone feel about coaching at this level? I seen some head coaches screaming at the kids on the bench this past weekend and these kids are 8 and here to have fun.
if you've ever coached competitive sports, emotions are high and its like being in a battle together. As long as no one is being demeaning, or over the top they are fine. Your little ipad princess probably needs to experience it. Its good for them.
If you don't like it, put them in soccer.
Klevr
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He's talking about coaches... its just jogging around with a ball on a field. How intense does a coach need to be? Therefore, yeah, go play soccer if you want your little booger gobbler to have sweet nothings and positive affirmations whispered to him all game.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 8:37 amMost soccer parents are worse!Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 8:31 amYou need to talk loud from the bench for kids to hear you.Guest wrote: ↑Mon Oct 28, 2024 7:27 pm How does everyone feel about coaching at this level? I seen some head coaches screaming at the kids on the bench this past weekend and these kids are 8 and here to have fun.
if you've ever coached competitive sports, emotions are high and its like being in a battle together. As long as no one is being demeaning, or over the top they are fine. Your little ipad princess probably needs to experience it. Its good for them.
If you don't like it, put them in soccer.
leave hockey for the kids who aren't paper soft.
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We’re talking about top kids. Not yours.Guest wrote: ↑Mon Oct 28, 2024 11:46 am I'm an Aces parent and the Aces kids are not developed outside. They are developed by a great team of coaches under an organization led by Jake Cella. The Cella family brings a great team of experience these are just normal growing pains but you can tell this team is showing flashes of playing some real hockey vs having a kid try to go end to end by themselves each time.
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So swearing and F-bombs are okay when emotions get the better of the grown-ups in charge, because games for 6/7/8 yo are battles.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 8:31 amYou need to talk loud from the bench for kids to hear you.Guest wrote: ↑Mon Oct 28, 2024 7:27 pm How does everyone feel about coaching at this level? I seen some head coaches screaming at the kids on the bench this past weekend and these kids are 8 and here to have fun.
if you've ever coached competitive sports, emotions are high and its like being in a battle together. As long as no one is being demeaning, or over the top they are fine. Your little ipad princess probably needs to experience it. Its good for them.
If you don't like it, put them in soccer.
Cool.
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Can't wait to suck on Trudeaus meat eh? What a liberal cuck comment.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 3:26 pmSo swearing and F-bombs are okay when emotions get the better of the grown-ups in charge, because games for 6/7/8 yo are battles.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 8:31 amYou need to talk loud from the bench for kids to hear you.Guest wrote: ↑Mon Oct 28, 2024 7:27 pm How does everyone feel about coaching at this level? I seen some head coaches screaming at the kids on the bench this past weekend and these kids are 8 and here to have fun.
if you've ever coached competitive sports, emotions are high and its like being in a battle together. As long as no one is being demeaning, or over the top they are fine. Your little ipad princess probably needs to experience it. Its good for them.
If you don't like it, put them in soccer.
Cool.
The guy didn't say anything about swearing.
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How old are these kids?Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 3:48 pmCan't wait to suck on Trudeaus meat eh? What a liberal cuck comment.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 3:26 pmSo swearing and F-bombs are okay when emotions get the better of the grown-ups in charge, because games for 6/7/8 yo are battles.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 8:31 amYou need to talk loud from the bench for kids to hear you.Guest wrote: ↑Mon Oct 28, 2024 7:27 pm How does everyone feel about coaching at this level? I seen some head coaches screaming at the kids on the bench this past weekend and these kids are 8 and here to have fun.
if you've ever coached competitive sports, emotions are high and its like being in a battle together. As long as no one is being demeaning, or over the top they are fine. Your little ipad princess probably needs to experience it. Its good for them.
If you don't like it, put them in soccer.
Cool.
The guy didn't say anything about swearing.
Re: Klevr
Not sure what the point of your comment is.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 11:48 pmHow old are these kids?Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 3:48 pmCan't wait to suck on Trudeaus meat eh? What a liberal cuck comment.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 3:26 pmSo swearing and F-bombs are okay when emotions get the better of the grown-ups in charge, because games for 6/7/8 yo are battles.Guest wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 8:31 amYou need to talk loud from the bench for kids to hear you.Guest wrote: ↑Mon Oct 28, 2024 7:27 pm How does everyone feel about coaching at this level? I seen some head coaches screaming at the kids on the bench this past weekend and these kids are 8 and here to have fun.
if you've ever coached competitive sports, emotions are high and its like being in a battle together. As long as no one is being demeaning, or over the top they are fine. Your little ipad princess probably needs to experience it. Its good for them.
If you don't like it, put them in soccer.
Cool.
The guy didn't say anything about swearing.
but the 2017s and 2016s are old enough to start learning a bit of tough love and consequences. Most boys NEED to be pushed and its great for their development.
Do they need F-bombs? No. Should a coach ever be physical with a kid? No.
But, kids need to be yelled at, they thrive under those situations and its great character building. However, it can't be THE ONLY tool in the tool box. That is the difference between a good coach and a bad coach.
if your iPad princess doesn't like it, or you don't like it on his behalf. Then I recommend a different sport or a lower level of hockey. (House League) because its never NOT going to be like this. That's competitive sports. Thats REAL life.
Do you think its a coincidence that kids who played high level sports do better in life than the kids that didn't on average? Its because it prepares them for real life.
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Fully agree that coaches at the competitive level do need to show some tough love. They need positive feedback when they do the right things and need to be told when not. If they are not listening do they need some yelling absolutely. But the comment is around coaches yelling at these kids with every other word being F this and you F'n that. On the opposite spectrum it also does not help where a coach just pretends like everything is fine because the kids are not learning.
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Agreed. The swearing has no place with the kids. Which is clear in every single post.Guest wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2024 10:25 am Fully agree that coaches at the competitive level do need to show some tough love. They need positive feedback when they do the right things and need to be told when not. If they are not listening do they need some yelling absolutely. But the comment is around coaches yelling at these kids with every other word being F this and you F'n that. On the opposite spectrum it also does not help where a coach just pretends like everything is fine because the kids are not learning.
Not sure why we are yelling in the wind about this? Everyone agrees that's B.S.
(And to clarify, I don't even care if our coach accidently lets an F-bomb slip, that happens. I have sworn tons around my kid at home, its not a big deal. I am talking specifically about constant and angry swearing. That is not okay)
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Guest wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2024 11:23 amAgreed. The swearing has no place with the kids. Which is clear in every single post.Guest wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2024 10:25 am Fully agree that coaches at the competitive level do need to show some tough love. They need positive feedback when they do the right things and need to be told when not. If they are not listening do they need some yelling absolutely. But the comment is around coaches yelling at these kids with every other word being F this and you F'n that. On the opposite spectrum it also does not help where a coach just pretends like everything is fine because the kids are not learning.
Not sure why we are yelling in the wind about this? Everyone agrees that's B.S.
(And to clarify, I don't even care if our coach accidently lets an F-bomb slip, that happens. I have sworn tons around my kid at home, its not a big deal. I am talking specifically about constant and angry swearing. That is not okay)
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