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Guest wrote: ↑Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:13 pm What about non parent, non paid coaches? Is that such a thing that exists

Guest wrote: ↑Sun Mar 26, 2023 9:48 am

Guest wrote: ↑Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:13 pm What about non parent, non paid coaches? Is that such a thing that exists

Sure it does...in fantasyland.

If everywhere you go you smell shit, you should check the bottom of their shoes...because its most likely you.

In other words, the people who consistently have an issue with coaches are the parents of kids who are uncoachable.

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 11:24 am

Guest wrote: ↑Sun Mar 26, 2023 9:48 am

Guest wrote: ↑Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:13 pm What about non parent, non paid coaches? Is that such a thing that exists

Sure it does...in fantasyland.

If everywhere you go you smell shit, you should check the bottom of their shoes...because its most likely you.

In other words, the people who consistently have an issue with coaches are the parents of kids who are uncoachable.

There are some great coaches, most of the good ones leave coaching, most of the terrible ones tho are s**cking off someone on the board to get the gig never leave!!!! Mostly because they keep their kid relevant. There is never any conflict of interest in who coaches! Problem is how long does it continue before it just makes it not worth doing anymore? 1 year,2 3 4 5? Bad coaches eventually rot themselves out of the position! Imagine though if we let our school teachers act/talk to kids like we allow bad hockey coaches to?

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 11:24 am

Guest wrote: ↑Sun Mar 26, 2023 9:48 am

Guest wrote: ↑Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:13 pm What about non parent, non paid coaches? Is that such a thing that exists

Sure it does...in fantasyland.

If everywhere you go you smell shit, you should check the bottom of their shoes...because its most likely you.

In other words, the people who consistently have an issue with coaches are the parents of kids who are uncoachable.

There are some great coaches, most of the good ones leave coaching, most of the terrible ones tho are s**cking off someone on the board to get the gig never leave!!!! Mostly because they keep their kid relevant. There is never any conflict of interest in who coaches! Problem is how long does it continue before it just makes it not worth doing anymore? 1 year,2 3 4 5? Bad coaches eventually rot themselves out of the position! Imagine though if we let our school teachers act/talk to kids like we allow bad hockey coaches to?

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 12:26 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 11:24 am

Guest wrote: ↑Sun Mar 26, 2023 9:48 am

Guest wrote: ↑Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:13 pm What about non parent, non paid coaches? Is that such a thing that exists

Sure it does...in fantasyland.

If everywhere you go you smell shit, you should check the bottom of their shoes...because its most likely you.

In other words, the people who consistently have an issue with coaches are the parents of kids who are uncoachable.

There are some great coaches, most of the good ones leave coaching, most of the terrible ones tho are s**cking off someone on the board to get the gig never leave!!!! Mostly because they keep their kid relevant. There is never any conflict of interest in who coaches! Problem is how long does it continue before it just makes it not worth doing anymore? 1 year,2 3 4 5? Bad coaches eventually rot themselves out of the position! Imagine though if we let our school teachers act/talk to kids like we allow bad hockey coaches to?

So you want your kids coach to act like a teacher, to tell your kid:
- he had a great shift, when he didn’t
- he’s a great teammate, when he’s not
- he’s improved a ton this year, when he hasn’t
- and that he wants him back next year, when he doesn’t

Why would you want a coach to lie to your kid?

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 3:21 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 12:26 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 11:24 am

Guest wrote: ↑Sun Mar 26, 2023 9:48 am

Guest wrote: ↑Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:13 pm What about non parent, non paid coaches? Is that such a thing that exists

Sure it does...in fantasyland.

If everywhere you go you smell shit, you should check the bottom of their shoes...because its most likely you.

In other words, the people who consistently have an issue with coaches are the parents of kids who are uncoachable.

There are some great coaches, most of the good ones leave coaching, most of the terrible ones tho are s**cking off someone on the board to get the gig never leave!!!! Mostly because they keep their kid relevant. There is never any conflict of interest in who coaches! Problem is how long does it continue before it just makes it not worth doing anymore? 1 year,2 3 4 5? Bad coaches eventually rot themselves out of the position! Imagine though if we let our school teachers act/talk to kids like we allow bad hockey coaches to?

So you want your kids coach to act like a teacher, to tell your kid:
- he had a great shift, when he didn’t
- he’s a great teammate, when he’s not
- he’s improved a ton this year, when he hasn’t
- and that he wants him back next year, when he doesn’t

Why would you want a coach to lie to your kid?

You totally missed the point rockstar! That 's a good coach and a good teacher!! But are your teachers yelling and swearing like a caveman at your kid? Humiliating him in front of the peers by calling him a useless piece of s**t. Or grabbing your kid by the cage and telling him that he shoots like a girl? Telling refs to f**k off, fighting with parents if they want to have a conversation that might upset his feelings! Never open to any feedback because he knows it all. Storms out of arenas like a 2 year old. Kicks and swears. Runs unorganized practices. Half in the bag at the best of times to try and get through the day. You can witness that any day at almost any rink, you'd be hard pressed to find that in a school.

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 5:13 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 3:21 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 12:26 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 11:24 am

Guest wrote: ↑Sun Mar 26, 2023 9:48 am

Guest wrote: ↑Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:13 pm What about non parent, non paid coaches? Is that such a thing that exists

Sure it does...in fantasyland.

If everywhere you go you smell shit, you should check the bottom of their shoes...because its most likely you.

In other words, the people who consistently have an issue with coaches are the parents of kids who are uncoachable.

There are some great coaches, most of the good ones leave coaching, most of the terrible ones tho are s**cking off someone on the board to get the gig never leave!!!! Mostly because they keep their kid relevant. There is never any conflict of interest in who coaches! Problem is how long does it continue before it just makes it not worth doing anymore? 1 year,2 3 4 5? Bad coaches eventually rot themselves out of the position! Imagine though if we let our school teachers act/talk to kids like we allow bad hockey coaches to?

So you want your kids coach to act like a teacher, to tell your kid:
- he had a great shift, when he didn’t
- he’s a great teammate, when he’s not
- he’s improved a ton this year, when he hasn’t
- and that he wants him back next year, when he doesn’t

Why would you want a coach to lie to your kid?

You totally missed the point rockstar! That 's a good coach and a good teacher!! But are your teachers yelling and swearing like a caveman at your kid? Humiliating him in front of the peers by calling him a useless piece of s**t. Or grabbing your kid by the cage and telling him that he shoots like a girl? Telling refs to f**k off, fighting with parents if they want to have a conversation that might upset his feelings! Never open to any feedback because he knows it all. Storms out of arenas like a 2 year old. Kicks and swears. Runs unorganized practices. Half in the bag at the best of times to try and get through the day. You can witness that any day at almost any rink, you'd be hard pressed to find that in a school.

^^^pure fantasy

I’m sure you see it that way. Because your kid stinks and his delicate ego isn’t used to hearing the truth, so you need to build a narrative to justify your hatred for the long line of coaches who burst your kids bubble, simply by telling him the truth.

I’ve put 3 kids through rep hockey in the G, where the hockey community is tight and word travels fast, and have NEVER heard of or met anyone who has experienced what you’ve described. If there are such coaches, they are few and far between.

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 28, 2023 4:57 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 5:13 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 3:21 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 12:26 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 11:24 am

Guest wrote: ↑Sun Mar 26, 2023 9:48 am

Sure it does...in fantasyland.

If everywhere you go you smell shit, you should check the bottom of their shoes...because its most likely you.

In other words, the people who consistently have an issue with coaches are the parents of kids who are uncoachable.

There are some great coaches, most of the good ones leave coaching, most of the terrible ones tho are s**cking off someone on the board to get the gig never leave!!!! Mostly because they keep their kid relevant. There is never any conflict of interest in who coaches! Problem is how long does it continue before it just makes it not worth doing anymore? 1 year,2 3 4 5? Bad coaches eventually rot themselves out of the position! Imagine though if we let our school teachers act/talk to kids like we allow bad hockey coaches to?

So you want your kids coach to act like a teacher, to tell your kid:
- he had a great shift, when he didn’t
- he’s a great teammate, when he’s not
- he’s improved a ton this year, when he hasn’t
- and that he wants him back next year, when he doesn’t

Why would you want a coach to lie to your kid?

You totally missed the point rockstar! That 's a good coach and a good teacher!! But are your teachers yelling and swearing like a caveman at your kid? Humiliating him in front of the peers by calling him a useless piece of s**t. Or grabbing your kid by the cage and telling him that he shoots like a girl? Telling refs to f**k off, fighting with parents if they want to have a conversation that might upset his feelings! Never open to any feedback because he knows it all. Storms out of arenas like a 2 year old. Kicks and swears. Runs unorganized practices. Half in the bag at the best of times to try and get through the day. You can witness that any day at almost any rink, you'd be hard pressed to find that in a school.

^^^pure fantasy

I’m sure you see it that way. Because your kid stinks and his delicate ego isn’t used to hearing the truth, so you need to build a narrative to justify your hatred for the long line of coaches who burst your kids bubble, simply by telling him the truth.

I’ve put 3 kids through rep hockey in the G, where the hockey community is tight and word travels fast, and have NEVER heard of or met anyone who has experienced what you’ve described. If there are such coaches, they are few and far between.

Narrow minded. There is life outside the G fella, step outside of it once in awhile and you might be enlightened. This has nothing to do with a skill level of a player, in fact my kid doesn't even play for this coach anymore, he moved up. So your analogy is way off, he excelled without the help of this coach. And it's not a fantasy, coach isn't smart enough to have not put most of his bs on texts and emails. The proof is real. But you carry on bubble boy.

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 28, 2023 5:07 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 28, 2023 4:57 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 5:13 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 3:21 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 12:26 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 27, 2023 11:24 am

There are some great coaches, most of the good ones leave coaching, most of the terrible ones tho are s**cking off someone on the board to get the gig never leave!!!! Mostly because they keep their kid relevant. There is never any conflict of interest in who coaches! Problem is how long does it continue before it just makes it not worth doing anymore? 1 year,2 3 4 5? Bad coaches eventually rot themselves out of the position! Imagine though if we let our school teachers act/talk to kids like we allow bad hockey coaches to?

So you want your kids coach to act like a teacher, to tell your kid:
- he had a great shift, when he didn’t
- he’s a great teammate, when he’s not
- he’s improved a ton this year, when he hasn’t
- and that he wants him back next year, when he doesn’t

Why would you want a coach to lie to your kid?

You totally missed the point rockstar! That 's a good coach and a good teacher!! But are your teachers yelling and swearing like a caveman at your kid? Humiliating him in front of the peers by calling him a useless piece of s**t. Or grabbing your kid by the cage and telling him that he shoots like a girl? Telling refs to f**k off, fighting with parents if they want to have a conversation that might upset his feelings! Never open to any feedback because he knows it all. Storms out of arenas like a 2 year old. Kicks and swears. Runs unorganized practices. Half in the bag at the best of times to try and get through the day. You can witness that any day at almost any rink, you'd be hard pressed to find that in a school.

^^^pure fantasy

I’m sure you see it that way. Because your kid stinks and his delicate ego isn’t used to hearing the truth, so you need to build a narrative to justify your hatred for the long line of coaches who burst your kids bubble, simply by telling him the truth.

I’ve put 3 kids through rep hockey in the G, where the hockey community is tight and word travels fast, and have NEVER heard of or met anyone who has experienced what you’ve described. If there are such coaches, they are few and far between.

Narrow minded. There is life outside the G fella, step outside of it once in awhile and you might be enlightened. This has nothing to do with a skill level of a player, in fact my kid doesn't even play for this coach anymore, he moved up. So your analogy is way off, he excelled without the help of this coach. And it's not a fantasy, coach isn't smart enough to have not put most of his bs on texts and emails. The proof is real. But you carry on bubble boy.

^^^more fantasy babble.

It takes a special person to hang on to miserable times, while they "claim" to be in a better place. It's more likely that your kid was cut because of you and you still resent him for it.

What happened to you, in your home centre, isn't representative of the majority. You're the one who need to be enlightened.