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Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 5:36 pm I am a grandparent with 4 kids that played AAA hockey
Most of the years they were all coached by parent coaches
With all 4, the times they had Non-parent coaches, it was (except for 1) a complete rip off. They coaches had "credentials" but other than milk the team budget dry, they did not develop the players at all. The parent coaches by U17 were far better coaches. Be very careful what you ask for
Just my 2 cents

My brother and I both had similar experiences.
Had parent coaches in AAA. At U15 I had a non-parent coach with non-parent bench staff. They did a big introduction with very impressive credentials. Season started off ok but very soon we figured out that we were all playing based on our own hockey skills and knowledge. They held tryouts but other than 1 player that moved, the roster did not change. We did have a decent season but the cost to the parents was astronomical. The coaches billed for their phone bills, milage, fuel, accommodations, wages for time off work, sticks, team wear, skate sharpening and meals. Every tournament they partied and all of our parents paid for everything.

Everyone’s got a sob story. And tons of people have great ones too. Imagine having someone with legitimate hockey credentials (RS) and being a whiney parent who doesn’t like him or the coach mentor that put him in place and wanting him off the bench? That alone is proof that there are whiney, self entitled parents ruining their kids hockey. Oh but wait, if said coach likes your kid and gets tons of ice time, then you’ll over look the crappy things you’ve been whining about. Parents are the worst for youth sports.

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 8:12 pm Not many parent coaches in the OHL, NCAA or NHL...just sayin

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:58 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:27 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:15 am BOTH these teams are in desperate need of non parent coaches

It’s not the coaches or the players.. it’s the psycho parents that just have to comment on everything like their child is an angel that can “do no wrong” and that their own adult behaviour is appropriate. The number of parents I heard shit talking kids in the lobby’s this weekend was disgusting and they were saying it in front of their own children and other players.

NO. Non parent coaches are a must. Also, there are a couple of kids that parents SHOULD be talking about. Their behaviour is not ok and perhaps the parents need to know that others on the team are not ok with teammates and their behaviour. These kids are all being lumped into "awful children" because of a couple bad apples. Reign in your shitty kids.

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 9:24 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:58 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:27 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:15 am BOTH these teams are in desperate need of non parent coaches

It’s not the coaches or the players.. it’s the psycho parents that just have to comment on everything like their child is an angel that can “do no wrong” and that their own adult behaviour is appropriate. The number of parents I heard shit talking kids in the lobby’s this weekend was disgusting and they were saying it in front of their own children and other players.

NO. Non parent coaches are a must. Also, there are a couple of kids that parents SHOULD be talking about. Their behaviour is not ok and perhaps the parents need to know that others on the team are not ok with teammates and their behaviour. These kids are all being lumped into "awful children" because of a couple bad apples. Reign in your shitty kids.

YOU should not be in the vicinity of children PERIOD
Probably should have supervised access to your own if you think you should bully a child and it is ok. You have an unfounded hatred to a parent and are making false accusations about their child. In fact, you do not know anything about anything. Careful, your face looks like the back end of a baboon and you are throwing feces just to see if it will stick
Time to shut the pie hole and dig realllly deep to find some sort of appropriate adult behaviour
We see 2 very talented teams with great coaches on both sides and wish everyone a great game
BE BETTER!

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Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 9:24 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:58 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:27 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:15 am BOTH these teams are in desperate need of non parent coaches

It’s not the coaches or the players.. it’s the psycho parents that just have to comment on everything like their child is an angel that can “do no wrong” and that their own adult behaviour is appropriate. The number of parents I heard shit talking kids in the lobby’s this weekend was disgusting and they were saying it in front of their own children and other players.

NO. Non parent coaches are a must. Also, there are a couple of kids that parents SHOULD be talking about. Their behaviour is not ok and perhaps the parents need to know that others on the team are not ok with teammates and their behaviour. These kids are all being lumped into "awful children" because of a couple bad apples. Reign in your shitty kids.

YOU should not be in the vicinity of children PERIOD
Probably should have supervised access to your own if you think you should bully a child and it is ok. You have an unfounded hatred to a parent and are making false accusations about their child. In fact, you do not know anything about anything. Careful, your face looks like the back end of a baboon and you are throwing feces just to see if it will stick
Time to shut the pie hole and dig realllly deep to find some sort of appropriate adult behaviour
We see 2 very talented teams with great coaches on both sides and wish everyone a great game
BE BETTER!

We agree! You should know that the majority of us are sick and tired of the behind the scenes BS you are pushing on others. You may have grabbed the ear of a couple parents that bought into your delusional thinking but they will figure out your agenda and you will be left standing alone
Just FYI we are NOT RD or RS or CL or related in any way to the bench staff
Go Canucks Go!

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 8:29 am

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 8:20 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 9:24 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:58 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:27 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:15 am BOTH these teams are in desperate need of non parent coaches

It’s not the coaches or the players.. it’s the psycho parents that just have to comment on everything like their child is an angel that can “do no wrong” and that their own adult behaviour is appropriate. The number of parents I heard shit talking kids in the lobby’s this weekend was disgusting and they were saying it in front of their own children and other players.

NO. Non parent coaches are a must. Also, there are a couple of kids that parents SHOULD be talking about. Their behaviour is not ok and perhaps the parents need to know that others on the team are not ok with teammates and their behaviour. These kids are all being lumped into "awful children" because of a couple bad apples. Reign in your shitty kids.

YOU should not be in the vicinity of children PERIOD
Probably should have supervised access to your own if you think you should bully a child and it is ok. You have an unfounded hatred to a parent and are making false accusations about their child. In fact, you do not know anything about anything. Careful, your face looks like the back end of a baboon and you are throwing feces just to see if it will stick
Time to shut the pie hole and dig realllly deep to find some sort of appropriate adult behaviour
We see 2 very talented teams with great coaches on both sides and wish everyone a great game
BE BETTER!

We agree! You should know that the majority of us are sick and tired of the behind the scenes BS you are pushing on others. You may have grabbed the ear of a couple parents that bought into your delusional thinking but they will figure out your agenda and you will be left standing alone
Just FYI we are NOT RD or RS or CL or related in any way to the bench staff
Go Canucks Go!

Hell ya!! Bout time this loser got shut down. He’s been going around saying his kid already has a spot with ljk next year. Which kid is his replacing??

Good luck to both teams!!

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 8:29 am

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 8:20 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 9:24 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:58 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:27 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:15 am BOTH these teams are in desperate need of non parent coaches

It’s not the coaches or the players.. it’s the psycho parents that just have to comment on everything like their child is an angel that can “do no wrong” and that their own adult behaviour is appropriate. The number of parents I heard shit talking kids in the lobby’s this weekend was disgusting and they were saying it in front of their own children and other players.

NO. Non parent coaches are a must. Also, there are a couple of kids that parents SHOULD be talking about. Their behaviour is not ok and perhaps the parents need to know that others on the team are not ok with teammates and their behaviour. These kids are all being lumped into "awful children" because of a couple bad apples. Reign in your shitty kids.

YOU should not be in the vicinity of children PERIOD
Probably should have supervised access to your own if you think you should bully a child and it is ok. You have an unfounded hatred to a parent and are making false accusations about their child. In fact, you do not know anything about anything. Careful, your face looks like the back end of a baboon and you are throwing feces just to see if it will stick
Time to shut the pie hole and dig realllly deep to find some sort of appropriate adult behaviour
We see 2 very talented teams with great coaches on both sides and wish everyone a great game
BE BETTER!

We agree! You should know that the majority of us are sick and tired of the behind the scenes BS you are pushing on others. You may have grabbed the ear of a couple parents that bought into your delusional thinking but they will figure out your agenda and you will be left standing alone
Just FYI we are NOT RD or RS or CL or related in any way to the bench staff
Go Canucks Go!

Also not related in any way to the bench staff. Not related to the team for that matter. Alot of hypocrisy here it's hard to turn a blind eye. Adults bullying adults name calling and blindly making accusations isnt much better. Does anyone blame them for wanting to leave to another organization. Who wouldn't being treated like that. Alot more than just 1 or two families are unhappy at Canucks. They are just all trying to stay in the good books

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 10:37 am

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 8:29 am

Guest wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 8:20 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 9:24 pm

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:58 am

Guest wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 11:27 am

It’s not the coaches or the players.. it’s the psycho parents that just have to comment on everything like their child is an angel that can “do no wrong” and that their own adult behaviour is appropriate. The number of parents I heard shit talking kids in the lobby’s this weekend was disgusting and they were saying it in front of their own children and other players.

NO. Non parent coaches are a must. Also, there are a couple of kids that parents SHOULD be talking about. Their behaviour is not ok and perhaps the parents need to know that others on the team are not ok with teammates and their behaviour. These kids are all being lumped into "awful children" because of a couple bad apples. Reign in your shitty kids.

YOU should not be in the vicinity of children PERIOD
Probably should have supervised access to your own if you think you should bully a child and it is ok. You have an unfounded hatred to a parent and are making false accusations about their child. In fact, you do not know anything about anything. Careful, your face looks like the back end of a baboon and you are throwing feces just to see if it will stick
Time to shut the pie hole and dig realllly deep to find some sort of appropriate adult behaviour
We see 2 very talented teams with great coaches on both sides and wish everyone a great game
BE BETTER!

We agree! You should know that the majority of us are sick and tired of the behind the scenes BS you are pushing on others. You may have grabbed the ear of a couple parents that bought into your delusional thinking but they will figure out your agenda and you will be left standing alone
Just FYI we are NOT RD or RS or CL or related in any way to the bench staff
Go Canucks Go!

Also not related in any way to the bench staff. Not related to the team for that matter. Alot of hypocrisy here it's hard to turn a blind eye. Adults bullying adults name calling and blindly making accusations isnt much better. Does anyone blame them for wanting to leave to another organization. Who wouldn't being treated like that. Alot more than just 1 or two families are unhappy at Canucks. They are just all trying to stay in the good books

No one has ever snapped back at this loser and explained publicly why things are the way they are. I wish I could lay it all out here.. but it’s not my position and it would only hurt his own child which I’m not willing to do. He is a nice kid with lots of friends, it’s not his fault.